Saturday, May 4, 2013

Blogger Bookclub, why not?!

I've recently joined a book club and I love it so much, so when I came across this idea of doing a Blogger Book Club I thought, how neat, why not. And the good thing is, they've picked the books already, and if you've already read that book for the month or you have no interest in that particular book, you can read another book. So head over to one of the hosts (linked below) and link up! Most importantly have fun!! I'm super excited about this and can't wait to get started!

What is the Blogger Book Club?
A book club for bloggers that will be hosted on My Name Is MadelineA Mile in Her Boots, and Confessions of a Busy Busy Bee on the last day of each month, starting in June 2013 and ending in June 2014. Just read one book each month that has already been picked out, and write a review on your blog answering particular questions regarding the book.


What do I have to do?
Follow the hosts
Link up each month.
Read the twelve pre-selected books.
Write a review on each book by the last day of the month.
Meet other bloggers while promoting your own blog.

What does the review have to be about?
To make it simpler for everybody, you will answer these five questions to help guide you:
1. What is the book about?
2. What were your initial thoughts on the book? Were you impressed? Disappointed?
3. Favorite quotations from the book.
4. What did you like most about the book?
5. Would you recommend this book to a friend?


Book List
June - The Help by Kathryn Stockett
July - American the Beautiful by Ben Carson
August - START by Jon Acuff
September - Bossypants by Tina Fey
October - The Fault in Our Stars by John Green
November - Z. A Novel of Zelda Fitzgerald by Therese Anne Fowler
December - The Shack by Wm. Paul Young
January - Looking for Alaska by John Gree
February - A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith
March - Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini
April - Have No Shame by Melissa Foster
May - Paris in Love by Eloisa James
June - Pick your own novel month








Wednesday, April 24, 2013

National Infertility Awareness Week


This week is National Infertility Awareness Week, April 21-27. I know many people who suffer from infertility, I've seen the ups and downs they've felt. And I've felt them for them as well. I'm in no way comparing placing my son for adoption to the feelings that those who suffer from infertility feel when the people around them are getting pregnant and having children. But I know how much it can hurt.

We've been trying since he's been home, so going on 12 months. We even talked with an ob/gyn when we were in Hawaii because my PCM (Primary Care Manager) was convinced I had PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome) even though the blood work and ultrasound came back negative. The ob/gyn explained it might take us a little longer since I was on anti-depressants for so long, and my body needs to start ovulating again. He said the anti-depressants made me stop ovulating.

I started having really irregular periods in July '11, before I stopped taking the anti-depressants. I stopped the anti-depressants in March/April '12. My longest cycle was 58 days, I had 3 cycles that were all over 45 days back to back. By August '12 I had two 12 day cycles, so that's why I called my PCM. Since that second 12 day cycle though, things have become more "normal." I'm hoping that means I've started ovulating. I've tried to use ovulation kits, but I'm not sure I'm doing it right, and I think that might be the only way I know if I ovulate because I can't tell, maybe I'm just not that intune with my body. Maybe I'm dumb...who knows...

We have decided that before we get that referral to a reproductive endocrinologist (fertility specialist) we're going to give it a few more months. I'm trying not to put too much pressure on myself but it's hard when the biggest fear I had after placing my son seems to be coming true. I know God has a plan for us, and I know whatever he decides will be awesome!





For more information on infertility, National Infertility Awareness Week, and how you can be a part of the movement, check out these two links:

Basic understanding of the disease of infertility
About National Infertility Awareness Week

Monday, April 8, 2013

Selfish

Something I watched yesterday got me thinking. It was a Sunday, so nothing was on, so we were watching a Kourtney & Kim Take Miami marathon. On part 1 of the finale Kim is talking to Scott about babies, and what she'd do if she became pregnant. Clearly she either didn't know she was pregnant, or wasn't telling anyone. Because when asked what she'd do, she said she wouldn't "get rid of it" because that would be "selfish." It's unclear what she meant by "get rid of it" but either way, it kind of pissed me off.

Whether she was speaking of adoption or abortion, there are many different reasons for choosing one or the other. And not all of them are selfish. Of course, there are those women with less than honorable reasons, I'm not arguing that. I just can't help but defend the ones who weren't selfish in their decision to place their children. Because, when I made my adoption plan, the only person I thought of was my son. And what was best for him. I wasn't with his birth father, we weren't even speaking, and he had made it perfectly clear that a) he wasn't the dad, and b) he wouldn't help at all. And I knew that raising a child without a father was not going to be something I wanted to put my child through. A boy needs his father, just as much as he needs his mother. And I did not want to put my son through child support fights and have him questioning and wondering why his father didn't love him. So I gave him a great family, a mother and father and a big brother. I'm not saying I couldn't have done it, because I'm sure I would have found a way. What I'm saying is it wouldn't have been fair to my son. It would have been selfish of me to have kept him. But what I'm not saying is that single parents, or unwed parents are selfish, in any way shape or form. In fact, I have a great respect for them.

Anyways, that's what was on my mind. Take or leave it.


Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Our trip to Florida

We drove down to Florida Friday morning. We went to Venice, it’s 1 1/2 hours south of Tampa, so we stopped in Tampa to pick up my father. My Uncle turned 80 on Sunday, so we had a party and family reunion. It’d been over 10 years since I’d seen most of the people there. Everyone couldn’t make it, and we missed them.

My grandparents came down with my Aunt, Uncle and cousin. My dad’s side of the family is HUGE. My grandfather had 12 brothers and sisters, and then they got married and had kids, and they got married and had kids. And my grandparents and Aunt and Uncle are all brother and sister. My Aunt is Papa’s sister, and my Uncle is Grandma’s brother. They all grew up together.

image_7From left to right: Uncle Chuck (father’s brother), Papa, Grandma, Uncle Tommy(birthday boy, and grandma’s brother), Auntie Shirl(Papa’s sister), Dad, me, Cousin Paige. Back row: Husband and Aunt Sue (Uncle Chuck’s wife) – my brother and cousin weren’t able to make it, so we’ll have to retake this picture next time we’re all together!

We got there Friday night and went to the beach for a little sunset party, of course because of traffic and picking up daddy at the airport we got there after sunset, but still had fun, and got to see everyone. After the beach we all went to Uncle Tommy and Aunt Shirl’s for an after party. First we went to the hotel and checked into our room and got settled. Husband and I were exhausted from driving all day, so we stayed for a little while.

Saturday was pretty relaxed during the day, we had breakfast at the hotel, gotta love Holiday Inn Express and their free breakfast! We spent time with Grandma and Papa, and then got ready for the day. We had lunch with some more family. There were 13 of us, we went to this place within walking distance of the hotel, we thought it was bigger, but it was a small mom and pop place.

image (2) The only one who wasn’t part of our group is the man in the yellow…but my father and Rocco are sitting at the counter.

Lunch was really good. They had burgers, hot dogs, sandwiches, fries and onion rings. It was called BrewBurger.

After lunch we waited for Uncle Tommy to come by with the JumpStart, husband left the lights on when we got back from the beach party Friday night, and my battery was DEAD! We found it dead earlier that morning, I asked if he had left the lights on, and he said he didn’t remember, so I went to look, and of course my lights were set to “on.” Uncle Tommy, Dad and I got it started, so Daddy and I took it for a drive. The radio needed to be reset, and since we had the car shipped I hadn’t put everything back in it, so I didn’t know the code, nor that the code was on a sticker inside the glove box, so dad and I drove to the Honda dealership! It gave us time together, and Daisy (my car) needed to run for a while. While we were out everyone else, but Husband, went out looking for the Tervis store. They couldn’t find it, the lady at the hotel gave them back directions. So we hung out at the pool and then got ready for the actual dinner party for Uncle Tommy.

The dinner was at the Italian American Club, Italian food and open bar, it wouldn’t have been a family get together without the two! There was a lot of alcohol consumption that weekend. Like I said, it wouldn’t have been a get together without it! There was cake, of course, and Uncle Tommy and a few of my cousins got into it!

image_4From left to right: Cousin Dan, two of our newest editions, Cousin Tara and Uncle Tommy

Sunday morning we met at Uncle Tommy and Auntie Shirl’s for brunch. it was a lot of food, like always! Before we hit the road, we went to the Tervis Tumbler Factory in Osprey with Aunt Sue and Paige. That store is awesome. We had 15% off coupons, and for every $40 you spend you got a free lid, handle or straw. We got a few Tumblers.

The weekend was amazing, and I was so glad Husband got to meet all my family. I know he was overwhelmed by it all. We are quite loud, I mean, we are Italian!

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

A random thought

Steven and I went to Florida for the weekend. My Uncle turned 80 Sunday and we got most of the family together. It had been over 10 years since I’d seen most of them. It was awesome, more on that later. Right now though, I have something else on my mind…

Shaving your legs in the summer vs. the winter. I swear when we were in Hawaii I could go a whole week without shaving, maybe even longer, and my hair wouldn’t be nearly as long after only 2 days since we’ve moved to a colder climate. And I noticed this when we were in Florida this weekend. And this is why I love summer and warm weather. I hate to shave. And since we moved here, and have a much smaller hot water tank, I’ve noticed that our shower doesn’t stay nearly warm enough the whole time I’m in there. Seriously people, I take 15 min showers, at max. I know I should probably get maintenance to come check it out. But we’re still living out of boxes, and I’m embarrassed even saying it, let alone letting anyone in my house to see!

Does anyone else notice that about the hair growth though? Or is it just me?

Yea, I figured it was just me…